Thursday, 1 December 2016

Should You Prioritize Your Career Before Having Kids?

Did you have a career before kids, or did you have kids first? Can either way work? I've been given an article to share about whether it's better to prioritize your career before having kids. I have my own opinions on the matter as I did things a little differently to the normal way. 


A lot of women who want the best of a career they love and a family they adore might wonder if they should prioritize their career before they end up having kids. This is a valid question, after all, as raising a family while working full-time is no easy feat. Ultimately, to come to the right conclusion for you, you need to consider the pros and cons of both options.  

The Benefits of Putting Your Career Before Your Kids

The great thing about today’s society is the fact that women aren’t looked down upon if they decide to hold off on getting married and having children. You can totally focus on going to school and getting a great education in your 20s so you can set yourself up for a lifetime of success. So go ahead and get your bachelors, masters, and even your doctorate degree. If you want to work as a nurse, for example, you can certainly pursue your nurse practitioner doctorate degree from a school like Bradley University. Or if you want to enter the exciting world of business, you can get your MBA and become a leader at a company you’ll thrive in.
In other words, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t pursue your higher education, even if your long-term plans are to settle down and start a family. So, go to school, date, get engaged, and get married if you want, but don’t have kids until your career is firmly established. Otherwise, you’ll end up having to hit the pause button on your career, and that could throw you off.

The Benefits of Putting Kids Before Your Career

Even though there are a lot of benefits associated with putting your career before your aspirations for becoming a mother, there are also plenty of women who end up getting married and having children before they have totally established their careers. And there are career women who take a break from their careers to raise their kids for a few years before returning to the workforce. There are even those women who don’t skip a beat because they take their maternity leave and then head right back to work, so having kids doesn’t even affect their career at all. So, this is definitely an option that you can pursue if you want to be sure that you’re going to start a family while you’re still in your 20s or very early 30s.

Go Back to School

Thanks to technology, you can now be a full-time mom and still work on advancing your education and your career. If you’re a nurse and you want to be an even better nurse when you return to work after having kids, for example, you can search for online doctoral nursing programs and get your degree from home. So, this is yet another option that will give you the best of both worlds.

Ultimately, you don’t have to make any sacrifices. You can plan to have kids before your career or vice versa and still have it all.


I don't think I'm a career minded person and I certainly went for family first. However, as I got older I craved for more education. I started my degree at the age of 27, I was already married with two small children. I studied with the Open University and did most of the work at home. I did have a few weeks away at a time for intensive study at university, I went to Cardiff twice and then Brighton.  My first intentions where to get a degree and go into teaching, then I found a passion for psychology and changed direction. In the end I decided against the careers of either teaching or psychology when I landed a really good job in an academic library. I loved it there and was happy with my choice. By this time my children were in Secondary School and I was a single mum. 

So I managed to combine education with bringing up children and landed my ideal job as my children got older. It worked for me and these days it is an easy choice to make. 

I did go on to have more children with a different partner so I suppose you could say I had a career after having kids and before having kids. 

Another point you need to think of is fertility, it is much better for younger women than older. Once you hit your mid to late 30s it can become more difficult to conceive. 

What do you think? Did you put your career first before starting a family, or visa versa? And can you have it all?

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