In loving memory of my Mum who passed away ten years ago on December 25th 2008.
One particular icy day, a week before Christmas 1983, my mum fell and fractured her arm. It didn’t stop her getting everything done for Christmas though. It was her favourite time of year. Together with my Nan they would cook up a gorgeous Christmas dinner and we would have loads of treats. Nan’s mince pies where to die for.
We didn’t have a dining room and the kitchen was small, but we did have a big round table that Mum used to put in the middle of the living room on Christmas day for us all to sit together for Christmas dinner. I would help lay the table while watching Top of the Pops on the Television. The after the Queen’s speech we would all pull a cracker and settle down to eat.
There would be various other family members visit throughout the day with extra presents for us all. It was always fun, even the washing up wasn’t so bad with us all chipping in. Everyone was in good spirits, and even though my Nan has a bottle in her hand here, I didn’t see her or Mum drink more than one glass of wine with dinner.
Boxing day all the family would visit for a party. Mum and I would move the furniture around to make more room, and we’d blow up balloons and give everyone party poppers. We’d play music on our Stereo gram, usually albums that I’d had as Christmas presents, and after a few drinks there would be some dancing in the middle of the room.
Then we’d rest for a while until it was time to get ready for New Years Eve. For this the whole family would save a little money each week in a Post Office account and it was all pooled together. We’d hire a hall, a dj and all my aunties would chip in preparing a huge buffet. We would have a huge table of drinks for the adults to help themselves. There would be loads of decorations, Mum and her sisters would work all day making it look totally amazing. Then we would party all night.
Thank you Mum for giving me these happy memories. They keep me going through the sad ones, like sitting with you in the hospice back in 2008 watching you slip away from me forever.
For anyone missing someone this Christmas, I know how difficult it is, but eventually the happy memories are what you grab in those sad moments. It’s okay to be happy without them, even though it’s hard.
Merry Christmas to all My Readers, Peace and love to all,
Sorry for your loss. Great photo though.
A wonderful photo to bring back memories.
Have a very Merry Christmas and thank you for linking up to #MySundayPhoto
Such bittersweet memories. I am so sorry to read that your mum slipped away on Christmas Day, but also happy to read of all the good memories you have. Wishing you a very Happy Christmas. Thank you for stopping by my blog.
What wonderful memories. It sounds like Christmas and new year were such a happy time for you all. How sad to lose your mum on Christmas day. Merry Christmas to you all.
It is lovely to treasure find memories and look back. merry Christmas to you and your family X #mysundayphoto
This is one of the best Christmas photos I’ve seen and your mum with her broken arm and gran wearing her Christmas cracker hat tipping a bottle of something to keep her warm is a hoot. This is a very familiar looking scene and could have been taken at my Grandma Dempsey’s house, especially with all the Christmas cards on the wall behind her (in contrast my Italian mother looks at them once then stacks them neatly in the spare room).
Losing your mum on Christmas must be especially painful but as long as we can remember and celebrate and still fell their love, they are not lost.
Merry Christmas and happy thoughts and delicious feasts and festive dancing to you, Anne. Yes, we must remember to be happy and the happiness they brought us when they were here.
Lovely memories to share.
A time for celebrating and remembering absent family and friends. Merry Christmas #MySundayPhoto
lovely memories to share, hope you had a very merry christmas and it sounds like mum is always there with you #mysundayphoto
This is such a 1980s scene with the furniture and décor. Real memories to treasure and look back with happiness.