Post Holiday Reflections


Each year we take a holiday with Haven simply because Star is happy to do so because it’s something she is used to. We can go to different camps, but they all have similarities which help Star. 

This year we went to South Devon, near Exmouth. We have been to this camp before but it was eight years ago. Star was four, Boo was two and the Little Man was a bump. We were so excited to go back as we had such lovely memories from there.


I would so love to live near the sea, it was visible from our caravan. I loved waking up, opening the curtains and seeing the wide blue ocean. I would watch the huge ships making their way to Plymouth harbour in the distance, and the little sailing boats bobbing along. 

The holiday camp had access to the beach, but unfortunately it was a very steep decline and I just couldn’t make it in my wheelchair. There was a cafe right on the cliff edge where I could grab a coffee and watch my family explore the rocks. I would have given anything to be able to join them, but it was enough to be able to relax and look out at the sea.

The Beach

Of course we did get to go to the beach at Exmouth which was only two miles away. I was able to get out of my wheelchair and sit on the steps with my feet on the sand. The tide was in and the water close. I know with help I could have walked to it and maybe have a paddle. But the water is cold and a sudden cold shock can make me ill. I didn’t want to take the risk, I was happy where I was, and the kids played on right in front of me.

We visited the beach a second time and found a place where I could drive my wheelchair down the ramp directly to the beach. I then got out and sat on a rock. I was really on the beach! And Boo was really buried in the sand!

a little girl buried in the sand on the beach while her brother digs more sand

Fun Activities

Each day we planned one activity and then just did whatever we felt afterwards. This meant we didn’t miss out on anything we wanted to do, but were not stuck to a particular routine. We spent a whole morning painting pottery, which was relaxing and fun. We had to wait two days to get our finished pieces but we were all happy with them.

four pottery figures, a mermaid, a cat, a fox, a poo emoji and an areoplane

We also went swimming, bowling and had a night out in the club where we saw an Abba tribute. We ate out a  lot but also cooked in the caravan, which had a full size oven and fridge freezer. 

We spent some time just chilling in the caravan, reading, watching television, playing games and the girls even baked cup cakes. It was fun and relaxing, and I loved that I could see the sea all the time.

We also spent a day at World of Country life which was so much fun and we’d definitely go again.

Holiday Success

Our holiday was just what we needed. The chance to chill out in a beautiful location. There was very little screen time and the kids played outside a lot. We managed to fit in a lot of fun things while still taking time to relax. We had no tantrums or meltdowns, no tears or fighting. There was the odd little moaning, but we are only human. I would definitely call it a holiday success. We didn’t even have any hassle on the journey which was amazing. We had our favourite songs on and sang along, to both old and new tunes. It was funny though, Boo asked Graham how far we had to go and he said, we are half way there now. Then the song ‘Living on a Prayer’ came on immediately afterwards and we were all singing ‘ooooh we’re half way there, oooooh Living on a Prayer.’ I did video it but I’ve promised not to share it, sorry. 


Since getting home we have also been relaxed. There has been a ton of washing to do, but that’s normal anyway. We’ve not been out much and it’s been nice to continue chilling out, although, I do miss the sea views.

My word of the week this week covers last week too and it has to be ‘relaxed.’

Debs Random Writings
The Reading Residence


  1. August 30, 2018 / 11:15 am

    Sounds like the perfect holiday. Glad you had a good time and you are feeling relaxed xx

  2. August 31, 2018 / 9:22 am

    Oh Anne this sounds so nice! My favourite kind of holiday, filled with fresh air, good food and a few fun activities. I’m glad you enjoyed it 🙂 #WotW

  3. August 31, 2018 / 9:27 am

    Relaxed is the perfect word for your week and it sounds like you had a lovely holiday. So glad you were able to get down to the beach at Exmouth. Those pieces of pottery look amazing and singing along to Livin’ on a Prayer at the halfway point of your holiday sounds like such a fun moment. #WotW

  4. August 31, 2018 / 2:27 pm

    Oh yes, to live by the sea. And in Brum, we’re quite a long way from it, aren’t we?! Sounds like you had a wonderful break, so good to get away, breathe in that sea air and relax. Glad you all enjoyed it x Thanks for sharing with #WotW

  5. August 31, 2018 / 8:36 pm

    Sound like you had fun! I love those figurines and the poo one is my fave. Scary and cute at the same time =P


    • September 1, 2018 / 9:24 am

      Yes, he’s a typical little boy. The girls were a bit disgusted that he chose the poo emoji, so it made it prettier by making it look a little like ice cream with sprinkles. Then the paint on the eyes and mouth ran it turned out looking pretty gruesome, lol.

  6. August 31, 2018 / 9:24 pm

    It sounds like you have a wonderful time, the Haven sites are really good for kids aren’t they. The relaxing break sounds like just the thing you all needed. I love the pottery you all painted especially the mermaid, I think I saw it on your instagram and thought you had bought it. Hope you have a lovely weekend x

  7. August 31, 2018 / 11:00 pm

    It sounds like a lovely holiday….
    I’m glad you got to feel the sand on your feet and then made it onto the beach! How wonderful. The kids look like they were having a great time in the sand.

  8. September 1, 2018 / 8:45 am

    Sounds a lovely way,to end the summer holiday abs you can’t beat a day at the seaside X #wotw

  9. September 1, 2018 / 10:12 am

    I must say I amanita beach fan I dont like going on them, but I love watching them and listening to the sea. There is something so relaxing about it isn’t there? I am so glad you had a great time and there were no dramas thats half the battle with a family holiday, pleasing everyone x

  10. September 4, 2018 / 4:51 am

    Hi Anne, it sounds like you had an amazing time. There is something calming about the sea and I can’t imagine not living near to a beach. Just being on the beach, especially in winter is so therapeutic. It’s a shame you couldn’t risk dipping your toes in the sea… Exmouth was a place I knew well, but I bet it’s changed a lot since then… Pottery painting sounds like a nice relaxing thing to do too. Is that steamy poop or an ice cream whirl I see?… Just being together as a family without the stress of home life is nice.

    Thank you for linking up with #keepingitreal.


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