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MY WORD OF THE WEEK – Diagnosis
This week has been better believe it or not. I did end up in A&E on Monday but thankfully there was no new diagnosis, just the usual problems. We had eldest son’s birthday on Tuesday, but we held off celebration until Wednesday when he had a big Chinese Take out of all his favourite food, which we mixed and shared and got the younger ones to try loads of new stuff. We’ve had lots of family time this week which has been nice, and I’ve not been so stressed.
So, it’s been a bit of a mixed week and I could have chosen a number of words for my word of the week. But, birthdays are common with seven of us, even though each one is special. And food and cake is something we always enjoy too. My hospital visit was scary but with no new diagnosis I just have to keep living and learning with my condition. (I’ve had some good advice to help.)
However, there is one big major thing that happened this week that is quite big and different and that is my Little Man’s official diagnosis of Autistic Spectrum disorder. We have known for a while that he is autistic but now we have it in writing and can get him help at school. I have huge mixed feelings about it. On one hand I wanted them to tell me that we were imagining it and there was nothing wrong with him that he wouldn’t grow out of. On the other hand, I’m glad we have the diagnosis now so that we can work on making sure he has the right help in the future.
Eldest son was diagnosed at the same age but it was all new to me and I struggled. Then Star, she was diagnosed a lot earlier and help was put in place in primary school which followed her through. But, I still had lessons to learn because without the proper help she has been left without support after school and I am now struggling to get that for her. Third time lucky I hope. Now I have the Little Man’s diagnosis I know the steps I have to take to make sure he has the support right up until his adult years.
Now it’s over to you, what word or phrase sums up your week this week?
Well, I think it’s good to finally know so that you and the others around him can give him the support he needs. Family time without stress sounds like bliss too. Looking forward to next week. Have a good one.
Happy birthday to your eldest. Chinese food, cake and family is a darn good way to celebrate. Sorry to hear that you had a scary hospital visit. I hope the advice really helps. I can see how your Youngest’s diagnosis could be a mixed blessing for you. One of my besties went through the diagnosis process for the first time a few years ago and expressed the same fears as you before her daughter’s diagnosis. They are all individuals, so I guess each journey is going to be different. At least you know. I hope your son gets the help to support him, that he so deserves.
Happy belated birthday to your son. All the family time sounds great. I hope you are feeling better now after the visit to hospital.
That is good that you can get your youngest the support and help that he needs. Good luck x
I completely get your mixed feelings about this diagnosis. As an autistic adult, I vividly remember having mixed feelings about the diagnosis myself (at age 20). I really hope Little Man will continue to receive help for as long as he needs it. As for Star, isn’t there any help for young adult autistics in your area?
We are looking into it, my eldest had a lot of help as a young adult so we need to get in quick because it seems to wane once they get to 19, unless they get a place in assisted living. My eldest was turned down for assisted living because they didn’t think he would cope…he’s still at home at 34.
I can imagine that finally getting an official diagnosis for Little Man comes with a lot of mixed feelings but I’m glad that the diagnosis will hopefully mean he can access the support that he needs. It must be a huge learning curve and hopefully third time around will be easier for all of you. Hope that you are feeling better now after your trip to A&E and hope that your eldest son had a lovely birthday. #WotW
I’m glad you can get help for him now and the diagnosis was offical. Sending you prayers and hugs. #MMBCCAr
The birthday treat sounds like lots of fun. I think I might get a Chinese takeaway for my birthday. Getting a diagnosis is a weird feeling, isn’t it! I’m glad it means he will get the support he needs in school. I’m starting to get worried about what happens after school. I’m hoping they guide us as I have no idea where to start! #WotW
It is nice to be properly diagnosed for thee correct procedure and treatment to start.