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My Sunday Photo 7th April 2019

April 7, 2019 by Anne Sweet 9 Comments

The Birthday Party Meal

I’m a bit late sharing these photos, they are from my Sister-in-Laws birthday party meal a couple of weeks ago.

The Selfie

I love this selfie Graham did of us with the family having their party meal in the background. I’ve blurred the edges a bit because we managed to catch some strangers on the next table too. Graham always looks so serious in his selfie photos though.

The Kids

At the other end of the table were the kids, this is only half of them and the middle one is not mine, that’s ‘Squidge,’ my Nephew’s youngest daughter. The lady turned away is my nephew’s older daughter…I really think huge age gaps are thing in our family (My Mum, my Brother, Me and My Nephew!) My Nephew’s older daughter is having a baby in June, so my nephew is going to be a grand dad!

Back to the photo, I was a little too far away to see what the kids were up to
(I didn’t take this photo.) It was nice to see them enjoying their food. However, when I viewed it I was very annoyed with Boo! Just look at her with her mobile phone on while she’s having a meal. That’s a big No No at home, and the same goes for when we are out for a party meal. I can’t really blame her though, she was only copying what most of the adults were doing.

Word of the Week #13 2019 – Out

March 29, 2019 by Anne Sweet 7 Comments

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My Word of the Week

This week I’ve been out a lot. If I’m honest it’s been too often, and now I’m worn out.

Out Shopping

Monday it was shopping, I had to get some birthday cards, a Mother’s Day card for my Mother-in-Law and a couple of little extra bits and bobs.

(flashback- I remember taking a very young Star into a supermarket one day and she asked me what we were going to buy. I said, ‘oh just some bits and bobs.’ Five minutes later she came up to me in the shop and said ‘Mummy, I can’t find any Bits or Bobs anywhere!’)

Out to Party

Tuesday, it was my very lovely Sister-in-Law’s 50th birthday and we all went out for a meal. We went to a pub that I’ve not visited before. I checked online and it said it was fully accessible. When we got there we entered at the front and found steps leading down to our reserved tables.

Boo spotted a ramp so I went to the other side of the bar to find that there were steps leading down to the ramp. We did notice a door on the other side though, so there was an entrance that led to the ramp. I went outside and made my way around the pub, but I couldn’t find a way around the back. So I went the other way and after fully circumnavigating the pub I finally found the entrance with the ramp. I was frustrated and upset as well as tired. At this point I just wanted to go home, but instead, I painted on my happy face and made my way to the party tables.

I decided it would be nice to park up my wheelchair and sit at the table. it makes me feel just like anyone else when I do this. An hour or so later I had to be helped back into my wheelchair. The entire left side of my body had gone completely numb and I was in danger of just slipping under the table.

On the way out, one of the staff told me they had lift for wheelchair users. It was right by the front door.

When we got home I was all but ready for bed. But first I had a huge dose of self pity to work through.

Out to Naidex

Wednesday it was time for Naidex45, a disability exhibition at the NEC Birmingham. I was nowhere healthy enough to attend, but I’d had my tickets for months and I didn’t want to miss it.

It wasn’t too bad, I survived the day intact. I didn’t find my next wheelchair as I had hoped. However, I did have a very interesting conversation with a lady about a new device which sounds amazing. I won’t say any more just yet, but I’ll spill the beans soon.

Today, I’m staying put. I’m not going out again for a while, I need some time to recover. It’s such a lovely day I’ve got the patio doors open and enjoying some of the outside while sitting inside.

So Now it’s over to you, what word or phrase sums up your week?

Raisie Bay

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I’ll Never Dance La Macarena Again

November 6, 2017 by Anne Sweet Leave a Comment

On Saturday evening we went to a family party. It was a proper party, you know the type where a hall is hired and decorated, there is a dance floor and a DJ, a fabulous buffet and a couple of the new additions, a sweet store and photo booth.
The hall was full with party goers and everyone was set to have a good time.

The kids had great fun chasing the disco lights around the room before the adults had plucked up the dutch courage to fill the dance floor. They also loved the photo booth and took up so much time in there we had to drag them out to let others have a go. They enjoyed dancing along to their favourite tunes and playing with new friends that they made. I used to love parties like this when I was their age and it looks like they love them too. They didn’t want to go home, even at 11.30pm!

young children chasing the disco lights across the dance floor

chasing disco lights

I was happy to sit in my chair and watch the fun. Having hubby top up the drinks and wait in the queue to fetch me food. I’d been chatting online with someone earlier about how I’d never been much of a dancer, well, not after my teenage years had passed anyway. I would dread that moment when a friend or family member would grab me up to dance. I admit, I have no rhythm, no style, I never knew where to put my feet or my arms and always felt totally clumsy and a little bit ridiculous. Not any more though. Now I can’t dance for real. There is no wiggle, no co-ordination, no balance, nothing. So it’s a good thing isn’t it? Something to be thankful for. Who’s going to drag me on the floor in my wheelchair?

I have a confession to make though. I used to love party dances, oh yes, I knew them all, ‘La Macarena,’ Whigfield’s ‘Saturday Night,’ ‘Oops Upside Your Head,’ even the ‘Cha Cha Slide.’ You don’t have to worry about where to put your hands and feet so long as you already know the routine. You may look as daft as hell, but at least everyone else dancing looks just as daft, it’s all uniform, everyone is doing the same or at least trying too. That’s the only time I felt comfortable dancing. There is one I’ve not tried yet, Watch Me (Whip/Nae Nae) and my girls were on the dance floor leading the way.

Watch Me!

Suddenly, I felt a pang.

I’ll never whip or nae nae, or hop and slide, or even Macarena ever again. I felt sad.

But only for a while.

I’ve had my time, years and years of parties like this, years of dancing whether I wanted to or not. I’m lucky, I’ve had fun, I’ve got drunk until I’ve fallen over, I’ve danced on tables, I spent the next day in bed swearing never ever again! (some things you don’t miss eh!)

Now I can watch my little ones having fun and get my enjoyment from them.

There is no need to focus on the can’t dos. Life is more than the things you can or cannot do. I have to let go of the past, accept life the way it is now and have faith that life will still be good.

Dad and the two girls giving me the thumbs up sign

It’s going to be Okay!

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My Daughter’s 10th Birthday Dog Making Party – updated

July 28, 2017 by Anne Sweet Leave a Comment

Earlier this year we reviewed some cuddly toy making kids from Splodge Teddy Parties. The girls really loved them so I decided I would buy a pack for Boo’s Birthday party.

I let her choose which ones she wanted, she could have had unicorns, dragons, zoo animals, there is so much choice. Eventually she settled on Dogs. I decided to get the 8inch ones because that was the size we reviewed and they were perfect.

The box arrived with all the unstuffed dogs. Just before the party we put each dog in a bag along with the stuffing and a birth certificate. I kept back the little hearts to give to them at the right time.

When all the children had arrived at the party I gave them all a bag and they were thrilled with their dogs. We settled down to stuff the dogs, the girls found them easy, it was just the Little Man and his friend that needed a little help. When they were almost stuffed I gave them all a heart to kiss and wish on before placing inside their dogs. The animals are so easy to fasten, there is no sewing involved. the stuffing goes into an internal bag and that is closed with a pull tag. Then you close up the dog by the velcro strips. The stuffing won’t come out if the velcro is undone, it is safe inside the bag.

After the girls had stuffed their dogs they chose names for their dogs and then filled in the birth certificates. Then they coloured in their bags, we turned this into a competition with the best coloured bag winning a prize, which was also dog related.

Party Food

It was then time for the party food, we had cheese and ham baps, pizza slices, sausage rolls, crisps, party rings and chocolate fingers. There were also some little cupcakes that my girls had baked and decorated.

When the food was devoured, the girls had one final task. They each had a plain iced cupcake which they had to write on their dogs name with writing icing and then decorate and add a little candle.

Just before the end of the party we presented Boo with her birthday cake, a big chocolate dog, and sang happy birthday to her before she blew out her candles.

It was a lovely day and I think Boo was really happy with how it all went. The dogs were a big success and each child was able to take home their toy in their bags.

I just can’t believe that my little girl is ten years old already!!

I bought the dogs myself from Splodge Teddy Parties. I’ve not been asked to mention them in this blog post but I’m doing so because I think they are great!

My Sunday Photo – 21st August 2016

August 21, 2016 by Anne Sweet Leave a Comment

No the best quality of photo this week, but that’s what you get when you are at a party with just your phone camera! Here are my three all sweaty and exhausted after a session on the dance floor!

The original plan was that my Other Half would take the kids to the party, which was his friends engagement party, and I was staying at home with some friends coming over to keep me company. It turned out that my friends had their dates mixed up (one thought it was Friday the other Saturday and neither could make the other day) so we have postponed our night in for a couple of weeks.

This meant that I was free to go to the party and the Other Half really wanted me to go. I haven’t been out in the evening like this since we were on holiday in June and that was a disaster. There was no room for my wheelchair, I couldn’t move anywhere and panic set in. We even ended up arguing because we were both stressed.

I really didn’t want to go but I have to go on living my life despite what’s happened to me. So I found some bravery from somewhere and off we went with OH promising that we wouldn’t stay very long.

We had a really good night. The kids were on the dance floor from the very beginning and I found space where I felt comfortable. We ended up staying almost to the end. (There was even a disabled toilet in the cubicles, which meant I could tell Boo to go back to dancing as I’d taken her with me to help just in case.)

I’m so glad I was brave enough to go in the end, everyone had a real good night. The only bad part was the venue was upstairs so it took us a while to get in and I suffered a ~~bit~~ quite a lot afterwards because of the stairs. But it was worth it and I’ve gained an extra confidence point which is always a good thing.

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